tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8584053.post8145597346418545787..comments2022-11-05T02:39:00.838-05:00Comments on Fleur de Love: I Love My Husband 2Mandeehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06616627767206762770noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8584053.post-12636002814830679552013-09-18T17:15:58.483-05:002013-09-18T17:15:58.483-05:00I hear ya! My motives are often the wrong ones. ...I hear ya! My motives are often the wrong ones. Sometimes I hold my tongue when I really shouldn't and then it does come out like a rocket at some point. It is so hard to know the right time and the wrong time. I guess that's why I asked God to help me figure that out. Sometimes it's just about my pride.Mandeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06616627767206762770noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8584053.post-4486394599260135542013-09-18T13:30:06.863-05:002013-09-18T13:30:06.863-05:00Amen! Mandee. Good prayer. I'm just gonna go a... Amen! Mandee. Good prayer. I'm just gonna go ahead and admit what I do...ok...here it is-I DO react the right way 99% of the time. But my motives are horrible. My objective is always so that he will realize the HE is HORRIBLE and I am an awesomely pious and patient woman whom he does not deserve. It's bad. Real bad. Well, there is peace-and that's a good thing. But over time resentment builds up (something we probably all experience) and I all of a sudden don't like being married and think what a fab idea it would be to tell him so. Think of these conversations as a laundry list of things I don't like about you that I've developed over the last-say, 6 years. And I'm gonna pop them on ya all at once-in five minutes. <br /><br />It's soooo not fair. It creates big problems and resentments out of little ones. The truth is I LOVE HIM. He is most certainly the person God made for me. I know that. I'm praying your prayer and also for myself to realize that I do not want to be the servant who was forgiven the unpayable debt only to demand small debts from others. <br /><br />Thanks for your insight. It really got me thinking:) And thanks for your heart. It is nice to be reminded we all struggle in our relationships and marriages are no exception!<br /><br />JessicaAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10209634898178279870noreply@blogger.com